First anniversary of wedding can be noted passionate love... At the fifth anniversary learn not to carp to each other on trifles. Having lived together ten years, try to find the general hobby.
In a year after wedding
attorneys in the name of parents are not necessary to you to solve family affairs. Get used to that it is not necessary to run with any news to mum with the daddy, to discuss with them each step of the husband. You have gemmated, and it is time to get the family usages.
tactics time перемирий - here that is necessary on a case of quarrels which are inevitable. As a rule, in happy marriages of the spouse are able to stop in time and do not continue scandal, postponing discussion till quieter times. By the way it искуством in perfection cosmonauts own. Imagine, that would be, if one of them has decided to slap a door...
By five years' anniversary of marriage
"Only together"... Take for правлио at least once a week to arrange "meetings confidentially". For example, during week-end it is possible for children to put a new animated cartoon and to dare to stay together. If there is a possibility, it is possible to meet after work in a neutral territory and to sit in good cafe or to glance to the general friends.
Learn to quarrel in a civilised way. Exist определнные rules which do quarrels if so it is possible to be expressed, more productive. First, do not interrupt each other and do not try to outvoice. Secondly, not старатесь to press on the partner ("Who would speak! Yes you never in a kindergarten for the child have come!" ) And certainly, do not compare it to the parents.
it is impossible to change each other. Realise it and cease to carp on trifles. If to your husband on a sort is written to leave case doors opened so that and to be. With another сторны, let he will leave you alone when you, having come back home, hang out the toilets on backs of chairs. It is better to reconcile to small lacks, than to transform the home life into struggle.
the laughter not only treats, but also pulls together. Learn with humour to concern troubles. If not having been in time definitively to quarrel, you will manage to stop and burst out laughing, from irritation there will be no also a trace.
do not gossip about the husband. It is unworthy, and in the opinion of those, with with whom you discuss it, you look not in the best way, if continue to live with such (!) the person.
Ten years together
the General hobby will rescue you from boredom and dissociation. It can be campaigns on skis, tennis or gardening.
be able to resist to temptation. If you promised to store fidelity to the partner in life, avoid provoking situations: at evening, after two glasses of champagne even the most ordinary colleague can seem вым the irresistible philanderer. Do not admire at the brawny trainer: it is necessary to start talking to it and charm will dissipate. Work with frequent business trips - not for you.
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